Question for our Female Members.....

[Ronald_Frump]

Hi ladies,

Serious question.

What made you want to join a forum like this? Do you share the same basic view of inter-gender combat, as most of us men do? ie. Dominant women > men/women, for mutual sexual satisfaction. What about the fact that many of us guys get turned on by F/F action? Does the lezdom aspect hold any fascination for you, or do you find it  repulsive? Do you derive more pleasure from being submissive in an inter-gender, or indeed lesbian confrontation? Why would you find wrestling/fighting more erotic than say, BDSM? Is it the closeness of body-contact, or the fact that it empowers the woman as she relies on physical strength/skill alone, rather than the use of mechanical devices to subdue her male (or female) adversary?

I'm genuinely interested in getting a female perspective on this. I can't do it without your help, as the "Y" chromasome addles my brain........
   

[sammy_scuffles]

I'll try some answers! Am I the only one at the moment anyway? Whatever.

So many questions...

What made you want to join a forum like this?

Umm.. a bit of fun? The vague hope that I might find some not-totally-femdom content? The chance to heckle guys when they say silly things?

Do you share the same basic view of inter-gender combat, as most of us men do? ie. Dominant women > men, for mutual sexual satisfaction.

No not really. I happen to like matches where the guy wins, or at the very least he's competitive. I fail to see the point of a match pitting a muscle-bound amazon against a weedy bald old guy who couldn't fight his way out of a wet paper bag. But hey, if people like that I won't tell them they shouldn't!

What about the fact that many of us guys get turned on by F/F action?

Nothing wrong with that.

Does the lezdom aspect hold any fascination for you, or do you find it  repulsive?

Other girls don't really hold any attraction for me. I do love to watch a good technical / competitive fight though.

Do you derive more pleasure from being submissive in an inter-gender, or indeed lesbian confrontation?

Yes, yes I do! But not in a "real" match, those aren't even slightly sexual for me at all, regardless of who I'm grappling. Play wrestling fantasy matches are my thing I guess. And I do find it much hotter to play the losing end for those.

Why would you find wrestling/fighting more erotic than say, BDSM?

I don't know much about BDSM to be honest. Who knows, might be fun!

Is it the closeness of body-contact, or the fact that it empowers the woman as she relies on physical strength/skill alone, rather than the use of mechanical devices to subdue her male (or female) adversary?

Well apart from the bit where you wandered off into femdom land again... I've never really thought that hard about why, it just is what it is and I can't really explain it. Wrestling holds hurt, why would that be a turn-on? But it is. I guess I'm just a crazy-person!

[RBAP]

I happen to like matches where the guy wins, or at the very least he's competitive. I fail to see the point of a match pitting a muscle-bound amazon against a weedy bald old guy who couldn't fight his way out of a wet paper bag.

totally agree!

[Ronald_Frump]

I'll try some answers! Am I the only one at the moment anyway? Whatever.

I think there might be a couple of you.......

Umm.. a bit of fun? The vague hope that I might find some not-totally-femdom content? I happen to like matches where the guy wins, or at the very least he's competitive. The chance to heckle guys when they say silly things?

Re. competitive: that can be arranged...... BTW I find a good "cyber-heckling" by a lady, to be most satisfying 

I don't know much about BDSM to be honest. Who knows, might be fun!

Wrestling holds hurt, why would that be a turn-on? But it is. I guess I'm just a crazy-person!

You've answered your own question there......pleasure/pain, good/evil, yin/yang, sane/crazy.....flip-sides of the same coin.


Thanks for answering! 

[Matey]

Good question, Stewie. (and yea, there's couple more ladies in here already)

so basically Sammy is just like one of us, ie she likes being dominated by the opposite gender through the means of power/wrestling/fighting moves, right Sammy? If so, there goes yet another fantasy of being (at least virtually) pinned by someone from Down under, LOL

Can you at least admit you get some sort of (non-sexual) satisfaction of managing to submit men on mats on occasions? that would make me keep a goddess-like status of you I like to imagine in my head everytime I see you post 

hehe, seriously, when you grapple guys, you win some you lose some, and like it like that, right? when I wrestle women, and if the woman is strong and/or skilled to the point she beats me 9 out of 10 times, I genuinely enjoy even that 1 time I'm able to submit her too. Not as much as I enjoy the other 9 times, but still.... 

[sammy_scuffles]

Can you at least admit you get some sort of (non-sexual) satisfaction of managing to submit men on mats on occasions? that would make me keep a goddess-like status of you I like to imagine in my head everytime I see you post 

No goddess-like statuses allowed! 
But of course, when I'm on the mats for real I'm either fighting to win (in a tournament when it matters) or trying to learn every last scrap of jiu jitsu I can (in practice when it doesn't matter). Both of which involve submitting guys when I can and getting submitted by guys who are better (or sometimes just bigger). And naturally collecting a good win is satisfying, it means that the work I'm putting in is actually worthwhile when I can get a tap off someone who's actively trying to beat me.

[sleepinbin]

that would make me keep a goddess-like status of you I like to imagine in my head everytime I see you post 

woah dude, chill out, you'll scare some of the ladies off talking like that :p

[Matey]

I could have gone over the top a bit more but chose to down it down..
lol, seriously, should have known sammy wouldn't have any of that 

Thanks for opening up to us, Sammy! Good to know the other side's wants and desires.
btw, if someone ever bothers you too much over PM's, don't be shy to let a mod know, we will deal with it (not that you wouldn't handle anyone on your own). on an old old message board we had a creepster like that who wouldn't leave few girls we had alone.

It's probably good you chose to send your personal stats and pictures only to me and not post 'em publicly 

[Ronald_Frump]

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It's probably good   you chose to send your personal stats and pictures only to me   and not post 'em publicly 

[crushed4life]

that would make me keep a goddess-like status of you I like to imagine in my head everytime I see you post 

woah dude, chill out, you'll scare some of the ladies off talking like that :p

Yes, calling them "mistress" will be just fine 

[sleepinbin]

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It's probably good   you chose to send your personal stats and pictures only to me   and not post 'em publicly 

qft

[sammy_scuffles]

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It's probably good   you chose to send your personal stats and pictures only to me   and not post 'em publicly 

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qft

What? Nobody else asked! 

[Ronald_Frump]

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It's probably good   you chose to send your personal stats and pictures only to me   and not post 'em publicly 

What? Nobody else asked! 

"I guess it's just you and me again, Rupert!"

[Matey]

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It's probably good   you chose to send your personal stats and pictures only to me   and not post 'em publicly 

What? Nobody else asked! 

"I guess it's just you and me again, Rupert!"

Fixed 

[Ronald_Frump]

lol, you just wait till halloween!